The last few weeks have been a big growing process - I have built a blogging business that I realized had not only plateaued in growth, but was becoming more of a liability than an asset. I don’t mean that I don’t love blogging, good God, I love it. But I had built it as a solopreneur - and to scale it to the next level, something had to give.
I considered my possibilities - realizing that all of them required some big shifts. Sure, I need to make some big shifts in strategy - but the bigger shifts I needed to make were in my own thinking…
#1 - I had to get my ego out of the way
As a popular author, the feedback and loyalty of readers is a great ego boost - could I put that aside in order to grow? Growing meant sharing the spotlight with others as I considered adding regular authors and writing less. I had to make the choice to let that go in order for the business to grow beyond what I am singly capable of doing.
#2 - I had to let go of the Do-It-Yourself mentality
This was exceptionally difficult at first as a solopreneur of 7 years. Sure, I had hired subcontractors before, but now I am considering not only replacing myself in some areas of the business, but also considering taking on a partner, something I never would have done before.
Part of my business mission is to empower others, but it’s not empowering to anyone to be a control freak. If I am to live up to that mission, that means I will have to ease the reigns and let others do some work, making their own mistakes and finding their own successes.
#3 - I had to be willing to ask for help
So many adults have a hard time with this - as a business coach, I should be able to easily do that which I help my clients to do - but plain and simple, it’s not easy. Asking for help feels like it reveals our weaknesses. What I’ve found instead is that if kept in perspective, our vulnerabilities can actually be some of our greatest assets.
#4 - I had to be willing to risk. Again.
Over the last month, NO question or option was off limits - including some very risky approaches and changes. They have been scary to face - just as scary as starting a business. Perhaps even more so because now I’m risking my baby - the business I have built with my heart and soul.
Again, we as entrepreneurs should be used to risk by now… but I’m beginning to believe it is something that we will never ‘outgrow’. So we might as well get used to it so we can get on with things…
#5 - I had to grow a thicker skin
When I made some small announcements of future expansion, readers AND friends pushed back a bit. One person felt I was turning into a competitor. Others wanted things to be the same as they always were.
Both were very hard to hear. In the end, I had to remember that I can’t control what other people think of me or my business - I can only move forward with what is the right thing to do. And as I grow and expand, I am guaranteed that even more people will not agree with me… so I had to take my own advice on rejection and take a deep breath as I moved on.
Although I’m not at the ‘next level’ just yet, already I am approaching everything differently through these realizations - and it’s given me a renewed determination to push this business farther than I have ever pushed a business before.
It’s scary. It’s frustrating. It’s challenging.
But it’s also exhilarating, exciting, and I know for a fact that no matter what happens I will be a better person, woman, and entrepreneur when I’m done.


But if I didn’t write every day, the business would sink. Fast.






